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How The Deland Arts & Crafts Fair Ultimately Played Out

March 31, 2023March 31, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

It was a day of newness – beginning with driving a cargo van 125 miles to my destination, which was The Annual Deland Outdoor Art Festival, where I had secured a booth to sell my creations for the very first time. I knew going into this virgin endeavor that I’d never recoup my costs:CanopyWagonShabby chic Continue reading

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The Secret to Trying Something New

March 24, 2023March 28, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

By the time you read this, hopefully, I will have driven a cargo van filled with my craft show supplies safely to Deland Florida – 125 miles from my home. By the time you read this, hopefully, the person who was supposed to help erect my canopy when I arrive at the park will have done so. By the Continue reading

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I Don’t Know Why This Gets To Me, But It Does

March 17, 2023March 17, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

Fannie Landman didn’t live a long life. She was born in Cincinnati, Ohio on August 9, 1912 and died on October 6, 1919 at age 7 years, 1 month and 2.8 days – from complications of Scarlett Fever and Septicemia, according to her Certificate of Death. Her family, immigrants from Austria, were too poor to have her Continue reading

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How to Get Out of a Jokerless Funk

March 10, 2023March 10, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

I was looking through my “Joke Folder” in my computer. Maybe it’s just me, but it seems like years ago, when e mail was more of a novelty than an everyday nuisance, people utilized this tech tool to send jokes. Nowadays I receive tons of E-mails bearing “enticing” subject lines:       HelloFresh – new recipes are Continue reading

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Down To The Wire

March 3, 2023March 3, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

My weekly newsletter comes out every Friday at 3 pm. I started writing it when my youngest son Louie was about three years old and he is now pushing thirty-nine. So I guess I’ve written a couple of thousand. My columns used to run about 900 words, but over the decades – along with our Continue reading

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I’m Afraid, But I’m Doing It Anyway

February 24, 2023February 24, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

Have you ever gone to a craft’s fair and watched the crowds huddle at one booth but barely enter another? I always feel sorry for the craftsperson/artist who sits there – solitary – trying not to appear desperate for customers – perched on a stool staring mindlessly at her cell phone. I’m afraid that in Continue reading

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I’m Afraid, But I’m Doing It Anyway

February 24, 2023March 3, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

Have you ever gone to a craft’s fair and watched the crowds huddle at one booth but barely enter another? I always feel sorry for the craftsperson/artist who sits there – solitary – trying not to appear desperate for customers – perched on a stool staring mindlessly at her cell phone. I’m afraid that in Continue reading

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Losing my mom – 5 years later

February 17, 2023February 17, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

Five years ago today, my sister and brother and I lost our mom to a very short battle with pancreatic cancer. She wanted to die on her birthday and she did.She wanted to be surrounded by family as she drew her last breath. And she was.She wanted to die in peace, without physical pain, and Continue reading

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The Strength of a First Love’s Bond

February 10, 2023February 13, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

One morning, I am jolted by an e mail that pops up in my inbox. It is from him – my first love. “Iris, I have something I think you would like which I would like to send you. I need your address so I can have UPS ship it down. If you doubt the validity Continue reading

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Do You Ever Forget Your First Love?

February 4, 2023February 4, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

Let me be clear: my husband is my soul mate. We have been married almost 47 years. However – and this is a BIG however – he was NOT my FIRST LOVE. My boyfriend and I started going steady in 9th grade – although we were already throwing sneaky sidelong glances at each other during Continue reading

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Incidentally, Iris

For the past ten years, Iris’s “Incidentally Iris” column has appeared in The American Israelite, a weekly newspaper for Cincinnati’s Jewish community and the American Jewish community. Founded as The Israelite on July 15,1854, by Rabbi Isaac Mayer Wise, the paper today is the oldest English-Jewish weekly in America and the second oldest in the world. (The London Jewish Chronicle was founded in 1841.) Read Incidentally, Iris columns on The American Israelite
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