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Gift Giving to a Grandkid: Cash or Innovation?

July 31, 2026July 30, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

I have a grandson who will soon be turning 18. I thought buying a birthday present for him would be very easy. Why? Because he loves Legos and goodness knows, the sheer variety of things to be built with Legos is endless. Imagine my dismay, when he nixed my idea quite succinctly. I take it Continue reading

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When Did This House Become Home?

July 3, 2026July 3, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

When Did This House Become Home? I stood at the window and watched the rain. The trees were still barren, although the buds were just starting to appear all over the wobbly branches. Across the street, I could see the lights in my neighbor’s kitchen. I turned around to face the room. My antique cookie Continue reading

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Who Needs a Quiet Hero?

June 26, 2026June 26, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

I admit I have a soft spot for World War II veterans – also known as “The Greatest Generation”. They were born between 1901 and 1927 and they were powerfully impacted by both the Great Depression and World War II. Tom Brokaw, in his book The Greatest Generation first coined the term – based on how these Continue reading

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What Do I Love?

June 19, 2026June 19, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

What Do I Love?Lists! I love thinking about them. I love making them. I love organizing them. And I LOVE crossing items OFF of them! Why am I so enamored by Lists? Lists quantify and provide a sense of progress and completeness Lists simplify – breaking down information into easily digestible bite-size chunks Lists create Continue reading

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Father’s Day – taking stock of those who came before

June 12, 2026June 11, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

Father’s Day is coming up soon – on June 21. Never too early to start planning how to honor our dads. And I hope the below column jumpstarts your thoughts on how to honor the man whose genes you carry. Father’s Day memories are most poignant when specific. I love it when every year my research turns up Continue reading

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Your Nana Is Not Perfect

June 5, 2026June 5, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

Dear Sophie, Benjy, Charlie, Bobbie, Lucy, Levi, Remi and Zoe,  Your Nana is not perfect – which probably will come as no surprise to you – as who knows what my loving sons say about me in the privacy of their own homes. Hee Hee! Either way – by my own admission right now or your dads’– Continue reading

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If you are male and think you have it tough, think again

May 29, 2026May 29, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

I’m driving down the highway half listening to NPR in my car. “Florida Matters Live & Local” is on the air and Dr. Deby Cassill, an associate professor of biology at USF, is chatting about the role of love bugs in the ecosystem and how in the past they inflicted damage on our cars’ paint Continue reading

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I Wish I Had More Time

May 22, 2026May 22, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

Nancy Pelosi – after an almost 40-year run in the United States Congress – has retired. Pelosi, 86 years old, often talks about “time running short”.  My sentiments exactly and I’m eight years younger than Nancy. My own mother was always in a hurry – and I never understood her sense of cosmic rushing until Continue reading

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15 Reasons Why I Could Divorce My Husband

May 15, 2026May 15, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

15 Reasons Why I Could Divorce My Husband He never throws away his used tissues – rather, he leaves the crumpled up messes on any available surface – for me to dispose of them. His organizational method post-retirement is to throw everything he needs to deal with in his grandmother’s wicker wash basket and go Continue reading

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Mothers – The Everlasting Influencer

May 8, 2026May 8, 2026 Iris Ruth Pastor

For so many years, my mother was my North Star. After she died, I realized I had internalized many of her life lessons – along with a modicum of her amazing creativity and her unending zest for life – all residing securely within me in my gut. Thus, after she passed away, my own gut became Continue reading

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Incidentally, Iris

For the past ten years, Iris’s “Incidentally Iris” column has appeared in The American Israelite, a weekly newspaper for Cincinnati’s Jewish community and the American Jewish community. Founded as The Israelite on July 15,1854, by Rabbi Isaac Mayer Wise, the paper today is the oldest English-Jewish weekly in America and the second oldest in the world. (The London Jewish Chronicle was founded in 1841.) Read Incidentally, Iris columns on The American Israelite
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