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Meeting my Cousin Jack for the Very First Time

January 26, 2024January 26, 2024 Iris Ruth Pastor

The vehicle: Ancestry.comThe initiator: My second cousin JackThe recipient: MeThe outcome: When we realized we lived only four hours from each other, we arranged for an overnight visit.  Jack and I literally spent 12 hours talking non-stop from 2pm until 2am. Jack, like me, is VERY verbal.  I learned about his marriages and children (multiple).I learned Continue reading

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Tidbits of Minutiae

January 19, 2024January 19, 2024 Iris Ruth Pastor

Every week has 168 hours. Theoretically:      If you sleep away 56 of them     If you work 40 of them     That accounts for 96 of them This leaves 72 hours each week to do with them what you so desire.Meaning: If you really want to do something, you’ll find time to do it sometime within Continue reading

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The Case of the Almost Emerging Nipples

January 12, 2024January 12, 2024 Iris Ruth Pastor

My husband was reading in the living room. I was sprawled out on the family room couch watching the 81st annual “Golden Globe” awards highlighting individual stellar performances and work in both television and film in 2023. I started shrieking. My husband quickly ran in to see what was wrong.  “Look, look,” I excitedly pointed Continue reading

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Hope Springs Eternal

January 5, 2024January 5, 2024 Iris Ruth Pastor

Four days ago, on January 1, we slid into home plate on the tails of the old year, 2023. In baseball lingo, I liken the first day of any new year to Opening Day of baseball season. No one would argue with the statement that 2023 was a challenging year and that those challenges will, Continue reading

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Nurturing Longevity

December 29, 2023December 29, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

To my dear sister, Lori, This week’s column is devoted to giving you advice to start off the New Year – which I am SURE you are so very anxious to hear. Being ten years younger, you’re probably quite sick of not only my advice, but gleaning wisdom from the host of experiences I have had Continue reading

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Where Did The Time Go?

December 22, 2023December 22, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

How many times do we ask ourselves this question:Where did the time go? One of my sons sent me an early morning  text a few days ago asking that same question – prompted by the reality that that particular day his oldest child turned 17. I shared his disbelief. In our modern world, we have the Continue reading

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A Brand New Experience

December 15, 2023December 15, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

I had an experience over Thanksgiving weekend that I’ve never had before. I had an opportunity to see a Broadway show before its official opening at the Belasco Theater in Manhattan.  The show was How To Dance In Ohio, a musical based on the Peabody Award-winning documentary of the same name that can, at present, be Continue reading

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Crawling Into Bed At 4:21 AM

December 8, 2023December 8, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

I crawled into bed at 4:21 AM – bleary eyed, exhausted and berating myself for staying up so late. Around 11:00 PM, I had been restlessly searching for something to binge watch. I came across The Golden Bachelor. I NEVER WATCH REALITY TV but something about the premise caught my attention: finding love for a golden-aged, widowed bachelor Continue reading

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What happens when my reach exceeds my grasp?

December 1, 2023December 1, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

OkayOkayOkay I know I’m 76 years old.I also know that everyone in our day I notice more signs of aging on my body such as those “adorable” age spots popping up on my hands, neck and cheeks. The conundrum is how to dress fashionably funky without looking ridiculous at my advanced age. The first rule Continue reading

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I Can’t Remember So Many Things

November 24, 2023November 24, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

I can’t remember so many things:     When I last saw my sister-in-law JoAnn who lives in Israel     What I had for dinner two nights ago     What my husband and I did last New Year’s Eve I can’t remember:What I read about CBD and gummies to help the elderly cope with aging’s ills Continue reading

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Incidentally, Iris

For the past ten years, Iris’s “Incidentally Iris” column has appeared in The American Israelite, a weekly newspaper for Cincinnati’s Jewish community and the American Jewish community. Founded as The Israelite on July 15,1854, by Rabbi Isaac Mayer Wise, the paper today is the oldest English-Jewish weekly in America and the second oldest in the world. (The London Jewish Chronicle was founded in 1841.) Read Incidentally, Iris columns on The American Israelite