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A Deeper Look into a Familiar Thing

July 25, 2025July 25, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

Most of you probably know by now The Story: I started an up-cyled jean jacket business when my best buddy sent me a jean jacket for my 75th birthday. It wasn’t just ANY jean jacket – my jean jacket was emblazoned on the back with a massive sequined hamsa. That was three years ago and, since then, Continue reading

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A Letter to my Five Sons

July 18, 2025July 17, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

July 14, 20259:28 PM Dear Harry, Frank, Max, Sam and Louie,  My 78th birthday is fast approaching, hence this letter. When I look back at the many things I have experienced in life, I am filled with such gratitude for the opportunities for adventure and engagement and challenge that have come my way: BUT, of all Continue reading

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Joy in the Little Things

July 11, 2025July 17, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

BEFORE you start reading this column, answer these two questions: IF, before beginning to read this week’s column, you have poured yourself a glass of wine or brewed yourself a cup of coffee,if you have sought out a favorite spot in your house to sit,if you have lit a scented candle,if you have leisurely gazed around at Continue reading

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Yearning for the “Swinging” Life

July 4, 2025July 4, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

One thing we all hear nowadays is that if we want to find balance and calm in our lives – we need to look inward. That, we are preached at, is the kind of happiness that matters.  I get that mindset. It’s probably why I go to yoga three times a week – to reduce Continue reading

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Cheesy and Predictable or Richly Soul Satisfying?

June 27, 2025June 26, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

I’m driving home at 5 in the afternoon from a series of irritating errands – dropping off a favorite blouse at the dry cleaners that I have once again stained – picking up a lush and heavily verdant basil plant at the nursery to replace the one I over watered and killed.  At the same Continue reading

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“The Lucky Ones”

June 20, 2025June 20, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

Two of my eight grandchildren graduated from high school recently. They were both raised in loving homes with food security, ample creature comforts and myriad opportunities to excel at school and to explore their interests outside of school.  I watched them proudly accept their diplomas, surrounded by loyal friends, loving families and dedicated teachers. They Continue reading

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Summer, 2000

June 13, 2025June 13, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

I get ready for my 35th high school reunion much like I got ready for my 10th reunion – in a hurry with the house a mess.  Dressing while throwing in loads of dirty wash.  Agonizing over my hips. Berating myself for not losing the five pounds I vowed I would lose before the last time I saw Continue reading

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The Endless Joys of Aging

June 6, 2025June 6, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

Plagiarism – that dreaded charge that all published writers fear.   Long ago, in the 1980’s, I had lunch with Susan Isaacs, then a best-selling novelist. She confided that she too fears plagiarism’s brute force. To guard against having her brain assaulted with ideas from other novelists, she refrains from reading fiction altogether. I purposely don’t read other Continue reading

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Finally – Getting What You Want!

May 30, 2025May 30, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

Sometimes I think I live under a rock.Up until a week ago, I had never heard of Mel Robbins. Have you? Most probably you have.  At age 41, she was unemployed, $800,000 in debt and her husband’s business was crumbling. Today she is a New York Times best-selling author and a world-renowned expert on motivation and changing one’s behavior. Continue reading

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It’s Give-Away Time!

May 23, 2025May 23, 2025 Iris Ruth Pastor

Over the years when I am stressed, did I turn to retail therapy for relief?Yes.But not to buy shoes, pocketbooks, or yet another black knit top.Nope.I headed for the nearest neighborhood bookstore to buy hardback books – mainly novels – in order to escape reality and lose myself in a mind-gripping story line.  I bought Continue reading

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Incidentally, Iris

For the past ten years, Iris’s “Incidentally Iris” column has appeared in The American Israelite, a weekly newspaper for Cincinnati’s Jewish community and the American Jewish community. Founded as The Israelite on July 15,1854, by Rabbi Isaac Mayer Wise, the paper today is the oldest English-Jewish weekly in America and the second oldest in the world. (The London Jewish Chronicle was founded in 1841.) Read Incidentally, Iris columns on The American Israelite
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