I have a confession. Sometimes I can say the most tactless things – not fully realizing the effect my words have. A couple of months ago I came across this quote: I LOVE MY FRIENDS. I JUST WISH I DIDN’T HAVE TO SPEND SO MUCH TIME WITH THEM. I lightheartedly repeated the quote to some of my buddies Continue reading

I think we all have mixed feelings about the profound effect technology, apps, the Internet, Facebook, etc., have on our lives.  Sometimes, though, magic happens and it did on August 16, 2024 when I came across this beautiful poem written by a former classmate of mine. Thank you Judi Kipner-Wolf for allowing me to share your lovely Continue reading

I found it on Facebook – a one-hour candlelight concert held at the iconic Centro Asturiano de Tampa – a club opened in 1902 for Spanish immigrants and their descendants to socialize. (Those old, elegant structures powerfully draw me in.) Advertised as “A one-of-a-kind experience in a candlelit setting,” a four-string quartet from the symphony would be Continue reading

Faulty assumptions are mistaken or misleading suppositions. Now I DO have assumptions about grand-parenting that have proven to be very true: Regularly doling out unsolicited advice to your adult children on rearing their children is probably not a great idea. Ditto for hovering like a helicopter.   Another assumption: The only way to truly have fun and get super Continue reading

It was certainly a bad week. Not just for me, but for my poor mouth.Massive infectionFractured tooth needing to be extracted in pieces (OUCH!)A complicated root canal procedureAnd lots of ice packs I was away from my husband.I was bouncing between two of my adult kids’ houses. I was in a lot of unremitting physical pain.I Continue reading

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, butshorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints; we spend more,but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less. We have bigger houses and smaller families; more conveniences, but lesstime; we have more degrees, but less sense; more knowledge, but lessjudgment; more experts, but Continue reading

Her name is Nicole, she is 40 years-old and I met her at a Dress for Success luncheon where my son Sam was getting an award. In between food courses and short speeches, we chatted.   Nicole was an “army brat” whose father was in the military. The family moved constantly until Nicole was a sophomore Continue reading

It was the first thing I saw when I walked into my kitchen early that morning.  Alone on the kitchen counter, a notebook-sized piece of paper caught my eye. It was an informal, hastily drawn chart I had made for myself the evening before so I could remember to take my newly prescribed meds for Continue reading

If you’re like every other female past the age of four on this planet, you’ve run into a friendship dilemma or two in your life. It happens to all of us because female friendship can be fraught with twists and turns that can be very tricky to navigate! Although we’ve all had to face friendship Continue reading

I know there are certain things I’m not rational about and one of them is my husband playing baseball. It all started when we were dating. He was playing baseball after work. I was spending quality time with my two young sons after work.  I never got to see him play baseball.  After we got married, Continue reading