Ever had a secret desire to branch out and try something you’ve thought about doing? Dreamed about doing? Almost did? But didn’t? Don’t think you have the time? The know-how? The energy? My colleague Dan Blank has the perfect jump-start solution to begin creating meaningful experiences: Give yourself permission. He advocates trying something new – Continue reading
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Ripped Jeans: RIP?
I used to live in a house with a majestic staircase. One Sunday afternoon, I was bounding up the steps clad in a pair of ripped cut-off jeans and an embroidered top. I’d been out all afternoon – cheering on one of my sons at a soccer game, picking up a prescription at the drugstore Continue reading
Inching Towards 70
The column below is the one referred to in my last newsletter to you. It was requested by a publisher in New Zealand. I think it’s worth a re-run. And, by the way, you’ll now be getting my weekly newsletter on Tuesday’s, not Fridays. With traveling so much over the coming months, a Tuesday deadline was easier Continue reading
First World Problems
Wednesday night I went to bed totally aggravated – completely ignoring my vow to rise above bothersome “first world” petty problems. My husband and I had spent 45 minutes trying to change the filter on our Keurig coffee maker, to clean the K-cup Portion Pack utilizing a straightened paper clip, and de-scaling it with vinegar Continue reading
Purging Perfectionism
Three things both struck me and stuck with me this past week. The first thing: the “2019” sign hanging from the front porch of one of my neighbor’s homes Once upon a time, I had a sign like this hanging from my front porch – signifying a child within its portals had reached the significant Continue reading
Regressing, Digressing and Facing the Future
I wrote this years ago when my son, Sam, who is now 37, was graduating from high school. It actually applies both to moms and dads and grandmas and grandpas who will soon watch a beloved child or grandchild reach one milestone, on the brink of another. Sam, soon I will watch you walk down Continue reading
Beware of Creeping Neglect
Mindfulness is in vogue – living in the moment – revering and reveling in the present. But what about awareness? Awareness is knowledge or perception of a situation or fact – concern or well-informed interest – consciousness, recognition, and/or attention. The opposite of awareness is disregard, ignorance, insensitivity, neglect, misunderstanding, unfamiliarity, and/or unconsciousness. I’m finding Continue reading
Post Mother’s Day Musings
It must be an age thing: when I was little, I remember speedily and greedily ripping the wrapping paper off each gift I received for any reason – at any time – rarely paying attention to the accompanying card. As I got older, I started actually giving credence to the written words of the cards Continue reading
Mother’s Day 1993
I watch my sister-in-law closely. She is pregnant – heavy and cumbersome – with her third child. She is consumed with diapers, feedings, playtime and naptime. I watch my mother closely. (She is not pregnant.) She has no children at home. She has no buses to meet, no jeans to hem, no school projects to Continue reading
Preventing the Ravages of Aging – Tee Hee
Okay. Let me set the record straight right away: I am not – nor have I ever been – a good cook. My five sons will attest to this. In fact, if you ask them to name a favorite dish they recall me serving during their growing-up years, you’d be met with blank stares. However, Continue reading