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Rediscovering a Lost Art

September 18, 2020October 8, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

Anne Bradstreet, America’s first published poet, died this week in 1692. She married at age 16 and bore her husband eight children. Unbeknownst to her, her brother- in-law sent her poems back to England to be published, assuring people that she did not shirk her wifely duties by stealing time to write poems. She was, Continue reading

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What gets to you?

September 11, 2020October 8, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

If you are like most Americans, I’m willing to bet September 11, 2001 is at the top of your list of things that get to you. The events of that infamous day of wreckage and carnage reawakened our long dormant sense of vulnerability and of the importance of staying watchful and informed. Another significant milestone Continue reading

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It takes so little, truly, to turn a parent’s frown upside down.

September 4, 2020October 8, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

It’s 1959. I am sitting on my twin bed on the second floor of our two-story colonial. My GE transistor radio is on my night stand – blaring the song “A Teenager in Love” by Dion and the Belmonts. I am annoyed. My little brother is pesty. My little sister too young to hang-out with.  Continue reading

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I’m Watching You

August 28, 2020October 8, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

For quite a while, I’ve been thinking about doing a column on not living in the moment. Everyone I know seems to think that they live in the moment – and that perhaps their friends and family members would do well to take a few lessons from them. I am clearly in the judgmental group, by the way. Every week, Continue reading

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My Secret Obsession

August 21, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

Okay. Let’s face it: Everyone has something in their life that could be deemed slightly or very much obsessive. It’s not surprising that the game of Maj Jong became my preoccupation during the long days of social distancing we are enduring due to Covid. The game is entwined into the very roots of my nature. Continue reading

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Quick tips for Quarantining in an unfamiliar space

August 14, 2020August 21, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

Dear << Test First Name >>, Quarantining is  a new way of life when traveling from one state to the next –  as I found out last month when I traveled from my home in Florida to the state of New York. Along with my husband, I quarantined in a privately-owned apartment on the Lower East Continue reading

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The Worst Birthday Ever

August 7, 2020August 7, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

I celebrated my 73rd birthday two days ago. Here’s the whine: I’m in New York City. Every museum is closed. Broadway is dark. No inside dining. I’m in New York City and the doctor has ordered me to stay off my feet due to my very slow healing ankle injury. Maybe just a tiny, teeny Continue reading

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Surprise!

June 19, 2020June 23, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

We all have talents and as the number of candles on our birthday cakes increases, many of us learn to be both comfortable and protective of our talents and to even exploit them for the greater good. I am not a farmer –I don’t plant and harvest wheat or rice. I don’t raise livestock. I Continue reading

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Shaken by the killing dredges up the past

June 12, 2020June 23, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

His name was Alfred and he was 21 years old, just like me. He was married with one child, just like me. Unlike me, though, Alfred was a high school drop-out with no kind, loving parents to see to it that he got a chance for a college education. His father had abandoned the family Continue reading

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Okay. Who Am I Kidding?

June 5, 2020 Iris Ruth Pastor

Okay. Who am I kidding? I keep telling myself how well I am coping during this pandemic and period of national and global unrest. Then I look at my ravished cuticles – picked at incessantly. Then I acknowledge my poor sleeping situation. Then I realize how often I walk around my house gnashing my teeth. Continue reading

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Incidentally, Iris

For the past ten years, Iris’s “Incidentally Iris” column has appeared in The American Israelite, a weekly newspaper for Cincinnati’s Jewish community and the American Jewish community. Founded as The Israelite on July 15,1854, by Rabbi Isaac Mayer Wise, the paper today is the oldest English-Jewish weekly in America and the second oldest in the world. (The London Jewish Chronicle was founded in 1841.) Read Incidentally, Iris columns on The American Israelite