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I’m Afraid, But I’m Doing It Anyway

February 24, 2023February 24, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

Have you ever gone to a craft’s fair and watched the crowds huddle at one booth but barely enter another? I always feel sorry for the craftsperson/artist who sits there – solitary – trying not to appear desperate for customers – perched on a stool staring mindlessly at her cell phone. I’m afraid that in Continue reading

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I’m Afraid, But I’m Doing It Anyway

February 24, 2023March 3, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

Have you ever gone to a craft’s fair and watched the crowds huddle at one booth but barely enter another? I always feel sorry for the craftsperson/artist who sits there – solitary – trying not to appear desperate for customers – perched on a stool staring mindlessly at her cell phone. I’m afraid that in Continue reading

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Losing my mom – 5 years later

February 17, 2023February 17, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

Five years ago today, my sister and brother and I lost our mom to a very short battle with pancreatic cancer. She wanted to die on her birthday and she did.She wanted to be surrounded by family as she drew her last breath. And she was.She wanted to die in peace, without physical pain, and Continue reading

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The Strength of a First Love’s Bond

February 10, 2023February 13, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

One morning, I am jolted by an e mail that pops up in my inbox. It is from him – my first love. “Iris, I have something I think you would like which I would like to send you. I need your address so I can have UPS ship it down. If you doubt the validity Continue reading

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Do You Ever Forget Your First Love?

February 4, 2023February 4, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

Let me be clear: my husband is my soul mate. We have been married almost 47 years. However – and this is a BIG however – he was NOT my FIRST LOVE. My boyfriend and I started going steady in 9th grade – although we were already throwing sneaky sidelong glances at each other during Continue reading

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I Couldn’t Have Been More Wrong…

January 27, 2023January 27, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

It is 3 p.m.He is the last speaker in a long line of speakers, which had begun at 8 a.m. I am attending a holistic health summit. Some of the speakers are riveting and some are technical and above my pay grade. On the verge of a major headache from information overload, I am tempted to skip-out on Continue reading

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I want to know about YOU

January 20, 2023January 27, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

You certainly know a lot about ME. I would like to know more about YOU. Please feel free to answer some or all of the questions below and send back to me.    What is your biggest challenge? Best book you read in 2022? What is your favorite way to relax? Name a healthy habit you currently have or would like to adopt?  What is Continue reading

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A Compulsion That Can’t Be Corralled In

January 13, 2023January 19, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

I’m sorry. I just can’t resist.It’s a compulsion that just can’t be corralled in.(I think I’ve been bingeing on too many Yellowstone episodes – I’m starting to think like a cowboy.) It’s a New Year and a New Year calls for a whole new array of quotes to inspire and entertain. And a very thoughtful friend gave me a Continue reading

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First The Muddling, Then The Clarity

January 6, 2023January 19, 2023 Iris Ruth Pastor

The beginning of this new year for me is not just about making resolutions, but is centered on trying to gain clarity over what my core values really are – not just muddling through with no clear vision – which, by the way, is what I normally do. I have one advantage though: living in a Continue reading

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The Best Way to End One Year & Usher in the Next

December 30, 2022December 30, 2022 Iris Ruth Pastor

Today is the second to last day of 2022 and already I am in full self-improvement mode.     I’ve got a brand-new planner     I’m looking into quickbooks to solve my book keeping needs     And I’m stoked because this is the year I will get thinner, more organized and more computer savvy (I declare those Continue reading

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Incidentally, Iris

For the past ten years, Iris’s “Incidentally Iris” column has appeared in The American Israelite, a weekly newspaper for Cincinnati’s Jewish community and the American Jewish community. Founded as The Israelite on July 15,1854, by Rabbi Isaac Mayer Wise, the paper today is the oldest English-Jewish weekly in America and the second oldest in the world. (The London Jewish Chronicle was founded in 1841.) Read Incidentally, Iris columns on The American Israelite