First, I was hugely annoyed that the scale was projecting once again an upward northern movement – 6 ounces to be exact. Second, I was somewhat annoyed that the prescription for my high cholesterol meds was once again delayed. (I know, my priorities are slightly skewed!) Third, I was annoyed that it took five minutes to figure Continue reading
Author: Iris Ruth Pastor
You Never Know What You’re Going To Get
My husband and I decided to embark on a road trip to our hometown – Cincinnati Ohio – starting from Tampa, where we now reside. Basically, it’s just “down the street a ways” on I-75. A thousand miles or so. Our first stop was Macon, Georgia, six hours from Tampa. I googled bed and breakfasts and the Continue reading
What Happens When You Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone?
When my kids heard I was going to knitting camp, I imagine they rolled their eyes. Then, if we had all been together, they might have looked at me with something akin to pity. Then they’d probably would mutter the following to each other, as they patted me on my head: “Mom has way too Continue reading
Muscles, Cleavage And A Ride I’ll Never Forget
His name was Alfred and he was 21 years old, just like me. He was married with one child, just like me.Unlike me, though, Alfred was a high school drop-out. His father had abandoned the family years ago and his mother died some time after that. And, unlike me, Alfred would die young from complications stemming from Continue reading
Finding Our “Happy Place“
The pandemic is winding down – hopefully no variants will eclipse our progress back to normalcy. It’s time to once again get energized and empowered. To take control of our own remote. To be the boss of “ME”How do we do this? We need to embrace, honor and hold sacred our individual need for space. I call this Continue reading
Iris Ruth Pastor on The Donna Seebo Show
My Life As A Swinger
Not surprisingly, one of my earliest memories is of my father telling me something. “You’re run of the mill, Iris,” he would say. “Just run of the mill.” Maybe it was my first lesson in intuition, insight and savvy. I knew by the way he said it that what he actually meant was, “You’re special. Very special.” And he knew I Continue reading
Doing What The Hell I Want
I’ll never be too old to wear bright red nail polish – think OPI Big Apple Red. I’ll never stop wearing lots of rings on my fingers – even when the age spots multiply faster than my chin hairs – and the chin hairs are appearing more rapidly each day! I’m living according to how I actually Continue reading
What Happens When the Neighbourhood “Changes“?
What does the CEO of the Chobani Yogurt Empire, the brilliant inventor and physicist Albert Einstein, the founder of Google, the creator of blue jeans, Arnold Schwarzenegger, the first woman Secretary of State have in common?They were all immigrants. Fast forward to 2021. While in New Jersey a few weeks ago, I had a chance Continue reading
Out of my Comfort Zone – Once Again
I’m visiting my son in New Jersey. While strolling his neighborhood, I spot a guy about my age walking toward me sporting a baseball cap with a big “C.” I immediately think it’s a Cincinnati Reds hat – my favorite team – my hometown team. I approach him with a big hello. “Wow a Cincinnati fan Continue reading